Somewhere
Melissa Schlemmer
Currently I am trying to juggle life with an infant, 7 year old, and a nearly 5 year old with special needs. Life is all kinds of crazy, but we are...
Somewhere there is a mom saying she is tired of picking up her child’s toys.
Somewhere else there’s a mom wishing with her entire being that her child was still on this earth to make incredible messes.
Somewhere there’s a mom saying her child’s nonstop questions are giving her a headache.
Somewhere else there’s a mother aching to hear her child’s voice. Even just one word.
Somewhere there’s a mother who can’t get a thing done with her toddler constantly at her feet.
Somewhere else there’s a mother unable to get anything accomplished because grief is holding her down.
Somewhere there’s a tired mother whose child woke up a little too early.
Somewhere else there’s an exhausted mother who hasn’t slept all night in years.
Somewhere there’s a mom deciding what outfits to wear for family pictures.
Somewhere else there is a mom making decisions for end of life care.
Somewhere there’s a mom tucking her child into bed at night.
Somewhere else a mom is holding onto her child so tightly as they wait for her to take her last breath.
Somewhere there’s a mom wishing for just 10 minutes alone.
Somewhere else there’s a mom begging to never ask for anything again if God would just take away her child’s pain.
Somewhere there’s a mom making well-child checkups.
Somewhere else there’s a mom making specialist, therapist, county, and school meeting appointments.
Somewhere there is a mom telling her children to get their shoes and coats on so they can run out the door.
Somewhere else there’s a mother toileting, changing, and carrying her non-ambulatory teenager out the door.
Somewhere there’s a mom quickly grabbing a new pair of shoes for her child at Target.
Somewhere else there’s a mom meeting with vendors to choose her child’s first wheelchair.
Somewhere there’s a mom in tears because parenting is hard.
Somewhere else there’s a mom in tears because parenting a child with special needs and medical complexities is hard.
Be grateful.
Be thankful.
Be kind.
Because you never know when you could end up somewhere else.