See the Gifts
Jodi Shenal
I'm a stay-at-home mom with two amazing children. My son is on the Autism spectrum and my daughter has a rare genetic disorder and multiple disabil...
When society regards individuals on the Autism spectrum, we are quick to concentrate on the clinical commonalities of the diagnosis, instead of the unique abilities each person possesses.
Unfortunately, we tend to focus on the aspects of Autism that we perceive as impairments. When we do so, we fail to see the magnificent attributes that someone on the spectrum brings to the world. Every single person with Autism is just that; their own, one-of-a-kind, distinctive self.
Being the mother of an adult on the Autism spectrum, it’s clear to me that we need to do better in embracing the beauty of neurodiversity among us.
I know that life isn’t always a cake walk for my son. I realize that his load isn’t always easy to carry. My greatest hope is for him to find great happiness, peace and contentment in his life.
I wish for him to clearly see his gifts. The ones that I see. I wish for him to be proud of these valuable gifts and to share them with the world.
I wish for everyone he encounters to see the gifts.
As children with Autism grow into adulthood, things aren’t as conveniently accessible to them as they should be. The fight for services and equal opportunities wages on. That battle doesn’t end at 18 years old, in fact, a whole new one then begins.
In thinking ahead to potential future employers and just his community in general, I hope others will recognize the incredible gifts that I see. I’m lucky to have had a daily front row seat for them.
It's been my privilege to observe a young aspiring filmmaker evolve. I’ve witnessed a memory as strong as a steel trap reciting video and film scripts with ease. I’ve watched determination and meticulous attention to detail emerge as he captures his scenes on film.
I’ve seen levels of creativity in writing burst forth that I could only dream of possessing. I have caught sight of honesty in him that most of us could learn from. I’ve studied a kindness and consideration for others that I strive for; a sense of fairness for all people that makes me want to be better.
We need to build individuals with Autism up, include them, and give them abundant chances to contribute their amazing gifts.
The gifts are plentiful.
I hope my son sees his, and will always let them shine brightly, for all to see.
